Do most narcissists have good intentions as long as you are under their control?
08.06.2025 07:34
they build up a mirrored version often to suck you in but down the road the mask gets a crack and the house of card falls and you are left picking up the mess.
you are mostly blissful sailing along quite unaware of their hidden actions and behaviours. They will be doing little gas lighting spells, omissions or blame shifting if you start to smell something is off. We all have times when we saw a white lie or a red flag go fluttering by , it may not even register, it may just be a quick blip.
good intentions are paved to hell so the saying goes. They are in control or otherwise they woukdnt bother with you.
now to them they delusionally believe they are giving you steak but in time youll see its just a cold stale old hot dog. Its a nothing burger scam.
Oh hell to the no
they do start off with smoke n mirrors , good intentions and allegedly ‘honesty’ but that is just grooming, love bombing, smoke n mirrors, false presentations. They do want love , they do have dreams, however
absolutely not
under the hood lies a broken angry , bored , toxic person that will throw you and your relationship right under the bus.
I can swear on a stack of bibles (yes, i once hired a private investigator) that if you get into their phones, their ipads, social networking/ profiles and dating sites, emails whatever …. you will uncover the pwnpd has a few hidden things they do not want you finding.
the truth is when you are under their control that is when the cluster b bullshittery hits the fan! While you are feeling safe, secure, loyal, content, like you met the one. Very soon a true cluster b is going to become bored with you.
they roped you in , secured you, and then the devaluation death spiral. You either leave because it got too bad, you got ghosted or discarded. And yes you most certainly can be discarded even in a marriage they are just too cowardly to leave or be honest.
i really dont want to give these folks the attention they dont deserve , ild rather give my attention to the survivors. I think their is a huge failure in our society where we worship the kardashians but neglect those that cant even scrape up the money to get therapy for chronic abuse
Why do men like low maintenance women?
according to dr ramani 1/6 are pwnpd. That is a pretty staggering thought. Imagine that number in the gay community where the cohort is around ten percent. Thats just heart breaking to know you are going to encounter one of these folks and its up to us to educate , teach prevention and awareness hoping we can bring enough light to this topic.
do not look for a silver lining because the only silver lining is you got your ass handed to you and your learning the truth our parents told us monsters live in the dark under the bed no they actually were invited into our beds. Our homes, our churches, our employment, celebrityhood our politics.
that is why they cheat, lie, steal, have porn addictions, substance abuse all under your nose(and then some).